The female G spot is legendary, but what about the male? It turns out that there is one. In this article, we will tell you where it is and how to properly stimulate it.
What is the male G spot?
Yes, the male G spot is real. This is not fiction and is not an attempt to attract as many readers as possible. Another question is whether it is more correct to call it point P. To most people, this is commonly known as the prostate.
Located between the base of the penis and the rectum, the prostate gland is a walnut-sized gland that a man needs to produce sperm. The secret is that the prostate contains many nerve endings, making it the ideal point for maximum pleasure.
By the way, this is also confirmed by research: scientists have found that prostate orgasm causes 12 muscle contractions, while penile orgasm causes only 3-5 contractions. In other words, if you connect the prostate to sexual play, a man can have two (or even three) times stronger orgasms than usual.
How to prepare for the search
Many men are full of prejudice about anal sex. Although prostate stimulation certainly can't change the orientation of a heterosexual (and if it can, it's not very heterosexual). Therefore, if you want to look for the P spot, you must first get your partner's consent. In addition, experts recommend explaining in detail what you plan to do so that he can make an informed decision.
Since the anus does not produce natural lubrication, it is important to have a water-based lubricant on hand (it is better to be tasteless and odorless so as not to accidentally irritate the skin). Also, file your nails or at least use gloves as a barrier to avoid damaging the delicate area.
Stimulation rules
So, now you know where the P point is and your man is not afraid to try. What's next? It can be difficult for beginners to independently decide on the right actions, so take the following methods:
- "Come here" movement.By moving your index finger as if asking someone to come, you can stimulate the prostate gently enough not to scare your partner, but actively enough to give him new sensations. Start slowly and then increase your speed.
- Circles and curls.Circular and sliding movements also work well and should be gradually accelerated. Note that putting too much pressure on the prostate can create an urge to go to the bathroom, so it's great for a man to empty his bladder before intercourse.
- Sex toys.If you don't want to go anywhere with your finger, but want to experiment, use massagers for anal games. In the same way, you can change the speed and type of vibrations so that the partner does not lose anything, or vice versa.
Finally, we remember again that body parts have no sexual orientation, so a couple can safely engage in anal sex in either direction. And we also note that if in the process the partner says that he does not like it and that it is necessary to stop, you should listen to him. In the end, we are all different. You can try again next time when you're ready, but for now, do something that always gives you pleasure.