Sexual arousal in men: how to understand when your partner is aroused

Sex is an important part of a healthy man's life. Sexual excitement in men can occur under the influence of various factors: the appearance of a woman, erotic touches, memories of past intimacy. The sexual response of strong sex is a combination of physiological and emotional outbursts that eventually lead to orgasm.

Signs of awakening in men

Sexual arousal is the human body's response to sexual stimuli. Its strength and duration depend on hormonal levels, well-being and anthropological characteristics (height, hair color).

Desire in its manifestations is similar to stress:

• the rhythm of breathing and heartbeat increases;
• pupils dilate;
• voice and behavior changes;
• blood pressure rises;
• muscle tension occurs;
• gases appear on the skin;
• saliva secretion increases.

Excitation process:

1. The main symptom of sexual desire in men is penile erection. Blood flow increases the length and diameter of the organ several times. The increase in length is an individual indicator, a small penis grows more during erection. It straightens and hardens. The changes that occur help the penis to enter the vagina.
2. With the transition to intimacy, the man's arousal and with it all the reactions of the body increase. Heart rate, blood pressure and muscle tension increase. The rhythmic friction of the penis against the vaginal walls is a strong irritant.
3. In order to prolong sexual intercourse, it is advisable to temporarily stop the friction to reduce the tension. Ejaculation appears on an erect penis, this is not a scary thing. It is the preseminal fluid that plays an important role in conception.
4. Orgasm is the peak of pleasure; it is the shortest moment of sexual response, lasting only a few seconds. It is accompanied by an eruption of sperm. In men, the muscles of the body contract, various sounds can escape involuntarily, and a feeling of euphoria arises.
5. The release of sperm occurs as a result of the rhythmic contraction of smooth muscles. It starts with small portions, gradually increasing the volume of sperm. After the first tremors, nothing can stop the man from completing the ejaculation. Each ejaculation is accompanied by sexual pleasure, especially in the head and body of the penis.
6. After orgasm, the body returns to its normal state. The muscles relax, blood flows out of the penis and the size of the organ decreases. A refractory period begins, during which the man does not wake up even if he physically affects the penis.
7. The refractory phase is the time when strong sex must be restored before a new erection. It does not have a specific duration and can vary from a few minutes to hours. This gap increases with age. The angle of elevation of the penis reaches 60-90 degrees in most cases. The maximum peak occurs at the age of 20, and after the age of 50, the angle decreases noticeably.

Ejaculation in men when excited

Clear viscous discharge from an erect penis is a normal physiological process. Lubrication in men during awakening occurs with the help of pre-ejaculation. This sticky, colorless fluid is released through the urethra during preparation for sex or during masturbation.

The source of lubrication is Cooper's glands. Their secretions contain many enzymes and mucus.

A transparent secret performs several functions:

• isolates residual urine in the urethra;
• partially neutralizes the acidic environment of the vagina;
• lubricates the urethra for sperm passage;
• Ejaculation promotes painless intercourse.

Lubrication volume varies significantly between men. A few drops can be 5 ml or more. The main purpose of pre-ejaculation is to prepare a favorable environment for sperm. Pre-seminal fluid neutralizes the acidity of the vagina, increases the survival of sperm and the chances of giving birth to a child.

For partners who prefer to abstain from sex for contraception, the question arises about the possibility of pregnancy if the lubricant comes into contact with them. Studies on the composition of pre-ejaculate have shown that it does not contain any seeds. However, with repeated sexual intercourse, residual seminal fluid stored in the urethra enters the discharge.

The absence or excess of fat in men does not affect their sex. Any manifestation is individual, there are no strict templates to which you must conform. Enjoy intimacy without fear or prejudice.

One type of "lubrication" of the penis head is smegma. These secretions are not related to sexual excitement. A white, oil-like substance facilitates the movement of the head of the penis as it comes out of the foreskin. But a large accumulation of smegma causes inflammation of the skin of the penis and other problems. To prevent this from happening, you need to wash the smegma every day.

How to excite a person

A man's sexual desire depends on many factors. If in his youth he is simply annoyed by the thought of intimacy, with age this is not enough.

To increase the libido of a partner, a woman needs special liberators or stimulants. Visual appreciation is in the nature of men, so strike attractive poses, wear attractive underwear, let your hair down to excite a man. The appearance of naked female organs and signs of desire from a partner also help to create a mutual impulse.

Various stimuli help to arouse the stronger sex:

• hearing;
• visual;
• smell;
• touch;
• erotic fantasies, movies, etc.

Arousal of sexual desire in a man should be approached individually.

1. For this, his music, food, perfume, etc. It is worth learning about their habits and preferences. Aphrodisiacs help increase desire, they can be spices, foods, drinks, aromatic oils.
2. Among the known pathogens of sexual activity: nuts, seafood, grape wine, herbs, herbs, fruits.
3. The smell of patchouli oil increases sensitivity and testosterone production. Young people will appreciate the smell of tangerine, verbena or cedar oil; a mature partner will like juniper or sandalwood.
4. Before preparing a romantic evening with an aroma lamp, you should find out if the chosen one is allergic to the prepared aphrodisiac.
5. For some men, words can be a powerful stimulant. From subtle signs of intimacy to overt lust, certain expressions trigger sexual activity in partners. Straightness is appropriate when communicating with a known object of passion, and any man will like to talk about sex or compliment the appearance.
6. Touching at different intensities is a direct way to arouse a partner. Monotony harms sexual activity, a woman will have to resort to experiments to attract the desired man.
7. You can start with a relaxing massage that gradually covers different erogenous zones and points. Touching breasts and nipples makes the sex stronger than women. Give your partner the full range of sensations, from gentle caresses and kisses to bites.
8. Do not skip the back and hips - here a light massage can end with a sensitive stroke with nails.
9. Inner thighs are another source of pleasure for men, soft or hard touches are chosen by the partners themselves. For caresses, you should use your whole body, not just your hands and lips. A man's stomach is one of the most erogenous zones. Learning his language will be a real pleasure. The partner's proximity to the penis, fatigue and expectations will quickly cause an erection.
10. The penis is an erogenous zone for every man, its stimulation will undoubtedly lead to the peak of happiness. The most sensitive and delicate part of the body is the head. Touching and stimulating with his tongue will make your partner forget everything in the world. By learning the most sensitive parts of a person, you can give him real pleasure.

Stimulant drugs

Why is sexual activity decreasing in men? There can be many answers to this question: stress, past illnesses, age, fatigue and other reasons.

Pills for men to stimulate sexual desire will perfectly cope with the problem:

• It is a leader among stimulant drugs. Originally created to treat heart problems, pills have become powerful and fast stimulants.
• The active component is a drug from the group of PDE-5 inhibitors, which improves erection. The drug does not affect the work of the heart and liver, and does not change the composition of sperm.
• A Chinese medicine based on ginseng and deer antlers with fewer side effects.

Consequences of excitement without release

Sexual excitement does not always end with intercourse. The body, which is preparing to release itself with orgasm, remains in a state of extreme excitement. If such cases are one-time in nature, there is nothing to be afraid of, health and potential are not threatened.

What does a person feel when he wakes up without being free:

1. discomfort or pain in the testicles, slight swelling;
2. discomfort in the penis;
3. tingling in the back of the head;
4. lower abdominal pain.

Of these symptoms, pain in the testicles deserves special attention. This organ is important for men's health. Responsible for testosterone and sperm production. If the genitals are healthy, the discomfort will disappear after 4 hours.

Pain in the testicles can be a signal of the disease. If their size, density has changed or the pain is sharp and severe, you should consult a doctor.

Sexual desire is an important part of a person's sex life. When a man is excited, it is better to use several methods that change their sequence. This will give amazing results.